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Singing with Your Children: The Benefits of a Shared Musical Experience


Singing with your children is a wonderful way to bond and create memories. Not only that, but it also has a range of benefits for both parent and child. From developing language skills to providing a creative outlet, singing with your children can help foster a deeper connection and encourage musical development. This blog post will explore the many advantages of a shared musical experience, so get ready to start singing with your children!

The benefits of singing with your children

Singing together with your children can provide many benefits, from helping to develop their communication skills to promoting emotional bonding. Studies have shown that singing with children can help foster speech and language development, as well as boost their communication skills. This activity helps children to become more aware of the sounds around them and increase their understanding of the spoken word. Singing also encourages children to experiment with different tones, pitches and rhythms, which can lead to improved speech and pronunciation.

In addition to developing communication skills, singing with your children can also be beneficial for their social interaction. As parents and children share an experience while singing, they are creating a bond with one another, providing opportunities for meaningful conversations and moments of laughter. By singing together, you are establishing a safe space where your children feel supported and connected with you.

Singing together with your children can also help promote their emotional well-being. Music is known to lift spirits, reduce stress and induce feelings of joy and happiness. When you sing with your kids, you can help to bring about a sense of joy and self-confidence as they recognise that you support and care for them. This can be a great way to build trust in the relationship between you and your children.

Finally, singing together is just plain fun! It doesn't require any special skill or talent – all it takes is a little enthusiasm and willingness to experiment. Plus, it’s free! You don’t need any expensive instruments or lessons – just the willingness to join in with your child and make some music. There are plenty of songs out there to get you started, so why not give it a go?

Tips for getting started

Singing with your children can be an incredibly rewarding activity for both you and them. It can help to create a strong emotional bond between you and your child, as well as fostering creativity and language skills. To help get you started with this important activity, here are some tips:

1. Incorporate singing into your everyday activities. Use songs to accompany certain tasks or routines that you do with your child. Use picture books and toys, and include plenty of actions as part of your singing time together.

2. Imitate your child’s favourite songs. Whether it’s a nursery rhyme or a pop song, imitate the song to get your child involved in the singing process. Adapt the lyrics to fit your activity – make it relevant to your child and their interests.

3. Turn off background noise and distractions. Make sure you have some quiet time with your child and turn off any potential distractions. You want your child to be able to focus on the singing experience and not be distracted by other noises.

It is also helpful to allow for plenty of pauses during your singing sessions so your child has plenty of opportunity to chime in. Additionally, consider doing hand motions or movements during the singing session - they help children stay engaged while they learn new words and melodies. This can also encourage children to take turns leading the song, which will boost their confidence and self-esteem. If you notice your child is getting overwhelmed during the singing session, take a break - it’s okay if things don’t go perfectly every time! Over time, gradually increase the length of your singing sessions so that they become more comfortable with longer periods of concentration. Lastly, make sure to recognize their accomplishments when they do something right; praise, hugs and kisses go a long way!

Songs to get you started

Encouraging your children to sing can be a great way to foster creativity, increase confidence and create a fun, interactive experience for the whole family. To help you get started, here are some of our favourite songs that you can use to encourage your children to join in the singing fun:

1. Ring a Rosy: This classic nursery rhyme is sure to get your children up and dancing around. Hold hands and move in circles as they sing the lyrics.

2. Head Shoulders Knees and Toes: This song helps your children learn the basics of body parts and is sure to provide plenty of giggles along the way.

3. If you’re happy and you know it: This classic is sure to put a smile on your face as you and your children clap, stomp, and perform actions to the lyrics together.

4. Here we go Round the Mulberry Bush: This is a great song to sing as your children go about daily tasks like getting dressed or brushing their teeth.

5. Twinkle Twinkle: One of the most popular nursery rhymes of all time, “Twinkle Twinkle” is a calming song and a lovely wind-down song to do before bedtime.

6. Sleeping bunnies: Perfect for helping your little ones learn to recognise changes in mood and actions, burning off lots of energy in the process.

© Kiddibops April 2023


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